a thread just for talking - Page 3708

BeautifullyBroken · Yesterday, 08:53 PM

In response to you guys guys vs girls convo...

boys are dumb, because they never see how good things are until its gone and too late..
girls are dumb because they overanalyze everything..
college guys are assholes
college girls are naive for falling for their BS..

and thats how i feel about it.

SUPERMANFLT744 · Yesterday, 09:05 PM

Thats all well and good BB, but how do you feel about females approaching guys instead of us always going after you. Whether or not we dont know if we have a good thing til we lose it holds no real weight in this conversation; neither how dumb either of the genders are/are not. But whether or not do you think its about time that women start to take up the initiative and approach males as opposed to the way more classical romantic way.

BeautifullyBroken · Yesterday, 09:54 PM

i know it doesnt. i was just venting. boys and me havent been getting along lately. haha.

honestly i do what I want, if I like a guy I'll go after him. If I see one, and I dont go approach him, but he approaches me, chances are Im not interested cause if I was I would go after it. Im not afraid. haha. lol. Im as boy crazy as they come. lol.

Mad4Milo · Yesterday, 09:57 PM

I don't think in the end either gender is 'better' than the other. Because there are guys that are nice and care about a real relationship. and there are also girls who could care less about a relationship and only want the physical aspect of being with someone. So in the end it goes both ways really.

I don't dislike the idea of girls asking a guy out either. I asked out one of my past boyfriends and hell we had a good relationship for over eight months. He just happened to be really shy, so whatevs.

BB I wish I could be more like you! I am typically the very shy one lol. I'll be friends with a guy and all but a lot of times I won't ask him out because I'm way too shy.

BeautifullyBroken · Yesterday, 10:24 PM

Yeah, but being outgoing when it comes to guys sometimes gets you the rep of a slut. :/ but its all good.

I dont think either gender is better. I mean every person is different. There are sweet awesome guys out there, along with crappy stupid guys and same with girls. There are awesome classy girls then there are trashy ones as well and so many in between. I dont think its possible to label the genders as being one better than the other. Boys and girls are different mentally, emotionally and obviously physically, but it works. Whatever works for each person I suppose. Sure I said boys were dumb, but that doesnt mean Im still not attracted to them. Underneath the dumbness, sometimes theres a really great guy. I just havent found mine yet, but I shall.

Thats my opinion. lol.